The 10-Minute Sleep Reset I Use When My Brain Won’t Shut Off
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You know that moment when you’re exhausted all day, finally crawl into bed, and suddenly your brain has never been more productive?
Did I respond to that email? What time does my eldest need to be somewhere tomorrow? Did I order the cross-country shoes?
Why did I froze up in that meeting six years ago?
Apparently, bedtime is when the brain likes to hold its most important staff meetings.
I know this feeling well. And one thing I’ve learned is that being tired and being ready for sleep are not necessarily the same thing. Your body may be exhausted while your brain is still very much in “doing” mode.
That’s why, instead of expecting myself to go directly from emails, work, parenting, scrolling, and tomorrow’s to-do list to blissfully asleep, I try to create a small buffer between the two.
And on busy nights, that buffer can be just 10 minutes.
My 10-Minute Wind-Down Reset
This isn't a perfect nighttime routine. You don't need a red-light device, a complicated supplement stack, or 45 minutes of meditation.
You need 10 minutes and permission to stop accomplishing things.
Minutes 0–2: Put the phone away
Not next to you. Not face down on the nightstand. Actually away.
Our phones give our brains an almost endless stream of stimulation: messages, news, videos, work, social media, and approximately 47 things we suddenly need to Google.
I plug mine in and try to treat that as the end of my day. Nothing happening on Instagram needs me at 10 p.m....really.
Minutes 2–4: Turn down the lights
This might be the easiest change on this entire list.
Light is one of the environmental cues your brain uses to regulate your circadian rhythm, the roughly 24-hour internal clock that influences when you feel alert and when you feel sleepy.
So I turn off the bright overhead lights and switch to softer, lower lighting. Think less “Target at noon” and more “cozy little restaurant where you can barely read the menu.”
Your evening environment should look different from your daytime environment.
Minutes 4–6: Make something warm
This is one of my favorite parts because it turns “getting ready for bed” into something I actually look forward to. Make a cup of herbal tea, warm milk, or whatever caffeine-free evening drink feels comforting to you. The drink itself is only part of it.
There’s something about the ritual of heating the water or milk, holding a warm mug, sitting down, and sipping slowly that creates a very clear transition:
The day is done.
Most nights, this is where either Dream Tea or Cacao Dream fits into my routine. I created them with ingredients like magnesium bisglycinate and L-theanine because I wanted my evening wellness routine to feel less like taking another pill and more like something I genuinely wanted to do.
But the bigger idea is the ritual itself. Give your brain something predictable that it can begin associating with the end of the day.
Minutes 6–8: Try the physiological sigh
This is the part that almost feels too easy. Take a deep inhale through your nose. Then, before you exhale, take one more short inhale to fully fill your lungs.Now slowly exhale through your mouth. Repeat a few times.
That's it.
Slow, controlled breathing can help shift the body away from the faster, more activated breathing patterns that often accompany stress.
And unlike telling yourself to “just relax,” it gives you something physical to actually do. I love 4-7-8 breath as well - if you have a little more time on your hands.
Minutes 8–10: Get everything out of your head
This might be the most important two minutes for anyone whose brain suddenly remembers EVERYTHING at bedtime (raises hand). Keep a notebook or some paper near your bed.
Write down whatever your brain is trying to hold onto: Tomorrow's tasks. The thing you forgot. The idea you don't want to lose. The conversation you need to have. The grocery item you will absolutely forget by morning.
Don't organize it. Don't solve anything. Don't turn it into tomorrow's beautifully color-coded plan.
Just get it out of your head and onto paper.
I think of it as telling my brain:
You don't have to keep holding this. It's written down. We'll deal with it tomorrow.
Then close the notebook.
You're done.
The goal isn't to force yourself to sleep
That's probably the most important part of this entire routine.
Sleep is one of those frustrating things that tends to get harder the more desperately you try to make it happen. So this isn't a “fall asleep in 10 minutes” hack.
It's a transition.
Phone away. Lights down. Something warm. Slow breathing. Thoughts out of your head.
You're giving your body a series of cues that say:
We're not doing anything else tonight.
And some nights, that may be exactly what your nervous system needs.
Make your evening ritual something you actually enjoy
I don't believe wellness has to feel like work.
That's a big part of why I created Glim in the first place.
Cacao Dream is our rich, warming cacao blend made with magnesium bisglycinate, L-theanine, reishi, and other thoughtfully chosen ingredients for an evening wind-down ritual. Dream Tea is our caffeine-free herbal option with chamomile, passionflower, lemon balm, magnesium bisglycinate, L-theanine, and reishi.
Whichever ritual you choose, consistency matters more than perfection.
You don't need the perfect nighttime routine.
Sometimes you just need ten quiet minutes between the person who has been doing everything all day and the person who is finally allowed to rest.